Post A Week 2011: Who Deserves More Credit?

schoolThis topic is the second topic on Word Press’ Challenge. I’m skipping topic one since I only agreed to do the once a week challenge. Besides this is an easy one for me to write about as it fits nicely into the core topics of this blog. Thanks Word Press!

I believe every child with any type of difference deserves more credit, but especially those who are schooled in mainstream classrooms. They have to work at least twice as hard as their peers and many of them still excel in the classroom. Some of them are in hostile environments where they endure daily meanness from peers who don’t understand their challenges.  Sometimes they have the added challenge of teachers, counselors, and even parents who fail to understand. 

  • Can you image having to tune out noise that sounds as loud as a jack hammer and still being able to concentrate on what the teacher is saying? That is exactly what many children with sensory sensitivity do every day.
  • What if you have cerebral palsy and boys on the school bus throw open condoms in your hair while calling you names? It happened to a young child in Florida.
  • What if you are a teenager who just reached puberty, you aren’t even old enough to have really experienced the world and other children are calling you gay and telling you to go hang yourself every day?
  • What if you stand up for someone and others target you and maybe even threaten your life? All of these things have happened in our schools.
  • Don’t those who are different deserve credit for enduring and surviving against all odds?
  • For the ones who couldn’t take it anymore, don’t we owe them understanding and a different world, so no others suffer the same fate?

I think we do, so I ask you to help me see that they all get the credit they deserve. Help me to change our schools and our world to a more tolerant environment where people really try to understand and support others. You can help do this by educating yourself and your children about differences by reading books like Delightfully Different. You can do this by speaking up when you see people mistreating others. You can do this by offering a smile or even offering help instead of judging others who are different.        

I’m Posting Every Week in 2011! 6

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I’ve decided I want to make a bigger commitment to my blog in 2011.  Rather than just thinking about doing it, I am joining the WordPress.com “Post a Day in 2011” challenge as motivation.  They included an option to post once a week, so this is what I am agreeing to do.  Autism spectrum, bully prevention, and the importance of tolerance and forgiveness will still be the main focus of this blog. Therefore, I plan to post at least twice a week on my core topics as well.

I’m promising to make use of The Daily Post, and the community of other bloggers to help me along the way, including asking for help when I need it and encouraging others when I can. Switching gears once a week might be fun, inspiring, awesome and wonderful.  It might also give my audience more insights about me.  I hope you’ll encourage me with comments and likes, and good will along the way.

Mahalo,

D. S. Walker

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From the Land Where Palm Trees Sway ©dswalkerauthor

From the Land Where Palm Trees Sway ©dswalkerauthor

From the land where palm trees sway, I want to share with you my dream for the future, as I wish each of you much peace and joy during the holiday season and throughout the coming year.  I hope and pray 2011 is a year of change, where people make an honest effort to be more open minded and really try to educate themselves about differences by reading books like Delightfully Different or similar stories that explain autism spectrum and/ or other differences.

Martin Luther King, Jr. had a dream and so do I.  I dream of a world where bystanders, parents, teachers, counselors, principals, and all people stand up to bullies and their parents and let them know it truly is time for change.  I dream of a world that is bully free.  I dream of a world where kindness is rewarded and more highly desired than a football championship.  Kindness, respect, understanding and acceptance should have a greater value in our society.  In the words of Tiny Tim, “God bless us everyone.”

The Stylish Blogger Award Goes To 15

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Kathleen over at Autism Herd awarded this to me on the condition that I post seven things about myself and then pick three more blogs for the award, so here goes….

  1. I’m a country girl at heart.  I grew up with horses, literally as we raised several from the day they were born.  When I was a child I also owned two ducks, six cats and four dogs.
  2. I’ve been a city girl for more than thirty years, but I still love visiting rural areas to get away from it all, and there are times when I don’t think I could make it through the day without man’s best friend, my dogs.
  3. I fell in love in 1982 not with a man, but with the Rocky Mountains.
  4. I still moved to Hawaii twelve years later when I married the love of my life.
  5. My family will tell you I cry at every sad movie or even when I read a sad book.  What can I say?  I can’t help it.  It’s who I am!
  6. I love people who are quirky.  “Normal” is definitely overrated!
  7. I love all kinds of music, but I especially love hearing my own children perform.  I assure you their musical talent did not come from me!

Now drum role please!

The three blogs I nominate are:

  1. Life in the House Asperger Built (I know Laura is everyone’s favorite.)
  2. Puzzle Piece Princess (Kelly’s a military wife who manages to help her two young daughters adjust to all the transitions being a military family requires.)
  3. Wonderfully Wired (Fiona explains so many things so well, but I especially love her post, “10 Things H Wants You to Know”

There are so many others I love too!  I’m so thankful to have found the Autism Blog Directory and Kim and Kathleen and all of you.